Thursday August 21, 2008
Just to add – when I visualised little ross, I wanted to pick him up and cuddle him, which I did, but that same sense of sexual shame made me want to ‘put him down’. I hope this will not mean he cannot trust me? Thanks again Ross
Norman: Try to tell the little Ross that he was never to blame for having these sexual feelings; that he does not have any reason to feel shame for other people’s deeds; and that the people who tried to make him blame himself were LIARS. You are on the right way.